Soulmate- Natasha Bedingfield

Incompatible, it don't matter though
cause someone's bound to hear my cry
Speak out if you do
You're not easy to find

Most relationships seem so transitory
They're all good but not the permanent one

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone

Relationships

So, I'm reading this book right now about relationships. It's such an interesting book and the weird thing is, I feel like the author is talking directly to me. She talks about all kinds of relationships but mainly just good, strong, friendships and how much females need a "best friend" that they can tell everything to and that will also tell them everything. Sometimes, I really feel like I don't have that. I've always thought you have certain friends for specific reasons. For example, one friend could be the one you talk to about spiritual things, one friend could be the one you talk to about family problems, one friend could be the one you always go out to eat or see movies with, etc. But that is not a healthy way to look at relationships. We need a person who we can share EVERYTHING with. The author also talks about how even though your husband should be your best friend and the one who knows everything about you and you know everything about him, you still need a "girlfriend" to share all of that stuff with, too. Men and women are very different in how they approach and deal with certain subjects and because of that, we (females) need another female to share everything with. This has just been on my mind so much lately. So much in fact that it's starting to interfere with everyday life, especially my schoolwork. We all need encouragement, love, and happiness. We all need to feel wanted and needed. We all need to be told that we are loved but more than that, we need to be shown love. I need to be shown love.