Saturday, February 9, 2008

all ears, but not all the time

So, the lines of communication DEFINITELY need to stay open in relationships. No matter what kind of relationship it is, you need to talk. Talk about feelings, opinions, ideas, problems, worries, etc. If not, there will be consequences. Spending almost 5 hours in a Wendy's is a great way to resolve any issues a relationship may have. Trust me.

Also, don't be so quick to tell others their flaws and imperfections. You may realize that you struggle with some of the exact same things. If you have a friend that is willing to listen to what you have to say, tell them. But then also be willing to hear what the other person has to say to/about you.

This might not make sense to some of you, but others know what I'm talking about. It's true. Just communicate. It may be hard at the time, but in the long run, you'll be so thankful you did.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Ashley,

Your on my blog-reading list now...

BTW, our cat, Smoky, is doing great although sometimes I feel she doesn't love me like she used to...wow, that could be a spiritual topic. Thanks for giving her to Ansley and me...

In Him, david welchel